Years ago moms would routinely tell kids, “go outside and play.” Today, many people have fears and don’t send their children outside alone. Because of Philip’s special needs, he’ll probably never be able to go out on his own. Helping him to enjoy outdoor activities can be challenging. A walk around the block is standard, but once we round the corner and are back at home, Philip is ready to head back inside. How can I entice him to the backyard for more play? He does not have the creative ability for imaginative play.

Getting your special needs child outside to play is sometimes easier said than done. Everyone has his routine and some routines become established out of convenience. It is so convenient that my special-needs son loves to spend hours on the computer. Playing outside requires some coaxing, but we all know the physical benefits make it well-worth the effort.

One of the most effective activities for engaging Philip in outdoor play is a game of tag, or as we call it “I’m gonna get you!” There are visual cues to the game – as I hold up my wriggling fingers and creep slowly in his direction he knows it is time to run. He also knows from the smile on my face that it is a game and should be fun. Other games that are highly visual help Philip to join in the fun. Large, colorful flying rings and beach balls are great. The family dog running after toys encourages Philip to throw.

One of my favorite motivations for Philip is his siblings! Being included in the fun with his big brothers and sisters encourages him to play for the longest amount of time. This is not so different from kids who can run and play and imagine without limitations. They too love the attention from their family members. So the best situation is for the whole family to play together, get dirty together, and encourage one another to get out into the great outdoors.

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